(Psychological research shows that what a person looks like when he grows up is more or less the accumulation of many moments of childhood. Childhood experience will not only affect behavior patterns, interpersonal preferences, but also affect the thinking patterns of adults.Bad childhood experiences can have lasting negative effects, resulting in unhealthy thinking patterns and emotional perception, which can change the way we see ourselves and the world. Whether succumbing to past experiences or avoiding them, people fall into anxiety, depression, anger, bad habits and painful relationships.In this book, Kroll kannoy, a global expert in developmental psychology, will help readers return to childhood, take you away from bad problem coping styles and heal your wounds while thinking about character and personality formation. Only when you find Tong?? Only with the thorns buried in the bottom of my heart can I really heal childhood, reconcile with myself and raise healthy children.)