(Communicating with others is a part of everyone's life, and the outcome of many interactions has a significant impact on personal growth and development. When communication is poor, most communicators agonize over how to change the situation. Communicating with high emotional intelligence can provide communicators with a set of tools to establish effective conversations with others. According to the communication state model, high emotional intelligence communication divides the communication between people into four representative states: destructive, adventurous, friendly and ideal. When the communication falls into an unsatisfactory state, the high emotional intelligence communication ACE system can help change the state of poor communication and achieve the ideal dialogue goal.)