(Why read books about EQ?Two dimensional self othersitself1. Change the status quo and refuse facial paralysis.2. Pleasant and effective social interaction3. Know yourself, strengths and weaknessesother1. Identify other people's emotions2. Guide others' emotions3. Move in the desired directionEQ has two main aspects1. Control your emotions2. Control others' emotionsLearn from five directions1. Know yourself2. Self control3. Self motivation4. Identify other people's emotions5. Social skills)